A couple of months ago I had the opportunity to run for Comfort Zone Camp’s Grief Relief Team at the Disney World Marathon.
The experience of getting to know some of their staff and what they do for kids put into perspective for me that it was time to run for a new cause.
Comfort Zone Camp is a place for grieving children to go and be a kid. A child who loses a parent or sibling deserves a chance for normalcy, and that’s what these camps do.
Sending a child to camp, though, takes a commitment from donors. Without the generosity of others, these kids wouldn’t have this chance to laugh, to smile, to play.
It costs $500 to send just one child to camp. And that’s why I’m joining the Grief Relief Team for the Ukrop’s Monument Avenue 10k in April.
But I want to go beyond $500. I want to get to $750. Getting to $1,000 would be even better.
You can donate to my team HERE. Donations of ANY amount are accepted. $1 … $5 … $50. Every penny is accepted.
For more information about Comfort Zone Camp, visit their website.
There are no words to explain what participating in the Walt Disney World Marathon was like. I left my watch behind, I left any crazy thoughts about running hard behind and I went out there and had a blast.
In a way, yesterday felt like a celebration of running. It was the absolute perfect way to kick off 2013 without any stress involved.
I’ve admittedly taken running too serious lately and I let that get me down a bit after the Richmond Marathon. While I have some big goals for this year, I had none yesterday except to have fun.
And 6 hours (yes, 6!) of fun (well, except for some middle miles that were a bit boring and hot) is what I had.
I can’t thank Comfort Zone Camp enough for letting me a part of their Grief Relief Team. Find out here how you can help make a difference in the life of a child.
I’m sure that I’ll have more to say in the coming days about this past weekend, but I’ll let the pictures tell the story.
It’s a race week like no other. Unlike the Richmond Marathon two months ago when I felt fully prepared (but had a miserable experience), I am running the Disney Marathon this weekend mostly unprepared.
It’s not like I was going to be “ready” for it — I was simply running to keep a good base going. When I got sick a few weeks ago, though, those plans went away.
My thoughts about Disney since I made the commitment to Comfort Zone Camp have been, quite simply, to have fun and finish. After watching the course video today, I have to say that I’m finally excited about what’s ahead. And that “have fun” goal certainly will be reached.
I’ve been so disconnected with running in the past month that I’ve decided for this weekend that I’m going to do the marathon without a watch. With not having major time goals for this race, I can’t come up with a good reason to actually wear one.
If I get excited at the beginning and bust out some fast miles, what good would it do me to know that?
If I want to stop and take a photo with Mickey, what’s a slower mile going to do to me?
If I get halfway through and feel good, or get to mile 20 and have a lot left in the tank, I’m going to know what my time is by a clock. I don’t need a watch with me to worry about whether I’m going to hit a certain time or fall way short should I decide to go all out.
By leaving the watch behind, it’s also one less thing I have to worry about packing. No watch, no charger. Just one set of running clothes and shoes. It will also allow me to quickly cross off one of my 13 goals for the year.
I’m taking part in the Disney Marathon in a little more than a week … that seems a little weird to say. After battling the flu last month, continuing to fight an annoying cough and just now getting back to feeling normal on a run, my main goal will be to have fun. I might just leave the watch behind so I don’t even know how slow I am.
More important that my performance, though, is why I’m running Disney. As I mentioned a few weeks ago, I’m joining Comfort Zone Camp’s Grief Relief Team.
Comfort Zone Camp provides free grief resources and resilience training to children who have suffered the death of a parent, sibling or primary caregiver. Their programs focus on the strengths of each child, empowering them to grieve, heal and grow in healthy ways.
Comfort Zone Camp CEO Lloyd Osgood is hoping to raise $20,000 for the Grief Relief Team by running the Goofy Challenge next week. Recently she answered a few questions about Comfort Zone Camp and why this is such a special event and cause.
What makes Comfort Zone Camp and Grief Relief Team special? What, for example, does a $50 donation do for a child?
Comfort Zone Camp understands the isolation a child feels following the loss of a mother, father, sister or brother. Our free weekend programs offer grief resources and resilience training so that our campers feel the support of a compassionate community, learn they are not alone and leave with valuable coping skills for daily life. Comfort Zone Camp is special because our staff and volunteers make it so.
The Grief Relief Team is the only one of its kind in the nation that we know of. While our runners participate for many reasons, the one thing that unites them to our cause is their desire to make a positive difference for a child or teen suffering the loss of a parent or sibling, undeniably one of the most traumatic events a child can experience.
Many Grief Relief Team members are actually Comfort Zone camper families, running to honor the memory of a loved one and to give back to a program that brought them comfort during a difficult time. A number of our volunteers run on the Grief Relief Team as well, taking their commitment to our program to a whole different level.
A $50 donation underwrites the cost of sending a child to camp. That $50 could go toward our volunteer recruitment and six-hour training process. Or we could apply it toward our extensive screening process where skilled professionals conduct interviews with those directly involved with the well-being of the child, for example, the parent, guidance counselor, and psychologist.
Another option would be to put the $50 toward the 1:1 matching process where campers are matched with a volunteer mentor whose sole purpose is to set each child up for success as he or she joins the Comfort Zone Camp community and learns to manage grief in a healthy way. Or we could use it to buy all the supplies we need to make s’mores at our bonfires!
Tell us why you chose to run the Goofy Challenge? What makes Disney such a big event?
To be perfectly honest, it was the bling. That’s what motivated me to sign up last spring right before the event sold out. If you run the Goofy Challenge (13.1 miles on Saturday and 26.2 miles on Sunday), you leave with a medal of Donald Duck for the half-marathon, a nice Mickey Mouse medal for the marathon and a big brass Goofy medal for doing both.
Three medals, two races, one great cause.
When you’re out there training, what goes through your mind as you know you’re running for a cause beyond your health?
I have logged some miles training for this race … lots of miles! It feels good to know I am part of a network of people who care about what happens to children suffering the loss of a parent or sibling and are willing to support my run financially to help a child in grief. Knowing I am raising money to make a difference for grieving children will keep me running — one foot in front of the other — for all 39.3 miles until I’ve crossed the finish line. Twice.
How many races have you done, and which is your favorite?
I ran the Monument Avenue 10k in Richmond once. In 2011, I ran the Disney Half Marathon and now I’m running the Goofy Challenge. Not a big racer. I like to run in the dark in the early morning with a group of friends, where I can run my run and not have to worry about thousands of other people in my path. Unless, of course, major bling and a good cause are involved.
What are your big goals for Comfort Zone Camp heading into 2013?
We have a solid program year planned. Each of our four locations will hold a combined total of 22 camps including our traditional weekend program, several one day programs, and a weekend program for young adults. In addition, we will hold five camps in concert with various partners around the country. The big goal for 2013 is to continue to strengthen our organization — from programs to volunteers to fundraising and infrastructure.
It’s like running a marathon; we have to invest in the systems and processes we need in order to build to last.
To donate to the Grief Relief Team, visit Lloyd’s fundraising page.
Since the program originated in Richmond, Va., Comfort Zone has grown to serve more than 9,000 children at year-round camps in Virginia, California, New Jersey and Massachusetts. Each camp hosts approximately 60 campers, four Comfort Zone employees and up to 80 trained and screened volunteers. Key program components include traditional camp activities, confidence-building exercises and age-based group counseling led by trained and professional grief therapists. All campers are paired 1:1 with their own individual volunteer mentor (Big Buddy) whose sole purpose is to set each child up for success as they join the Comfort Zone Camp community and learn to manage their grief in a healthy way.
Nov. 10 was supposed to be the last marathon for a while, but a few days before that a friend of mine asked if I would be interested in joining a Disney Marathon team through Comfort Zone Camp‘s Grief Relief Team.
My first thought was absolutely not. No more marathons for me. Then the marathon went down the way it did and I quickly realized that I’ve been taking running way too seriously for the past couple of years.
Running Disney would be the opportunity to do a race purely for fun. Then I thought about the opportunity of taking the family to Disney and then also supporting this great organization. It’s been way too long since I’ve run an event for a reason other than personal satisfaction.
Disney will not be an “A” race for me by any means, but I believe it will be a weekend to cherish for years to come.
Photos courtesy of Comfort Zone camp
I want to thank my friends at Comfort Zone Camp for reaching out to me to join the Grief Relief Team.
Headquartered in Richmond, Comfort Zone Camp is a nonprofit organization that helps transform the lives of children who have experienced the death of a parent or sibling.
Camps are held year-round throughout the country for kids age 7-17. I can’t wait to be a part of this special weekend.
In addition to their website, you can find Comfort Zone Camp on Facebook and Twitter. To donate to the Grief Relief Team, visit Comfort Zone Camp CEO Lloyd Osgood’s fundraising page.
Comfort Zone envisions a world where grieving children are not forgotten or left to grieve alone, and are supported by a wide community that understands and appreciates them.
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